Before I had a newborn baby of my now, there were things I kinda knew about and other things I imagined. Until it hits though, you don’t actually know what you are in for. I never thought I would find myself saying, “Awww, look!” several times a day. Each and every day brings something new. You grow as a parent as your baby grows and reaches new milestones. So, in this post, I mention a few things which I never knew about newborn babies until we were blessed with our first, our baby boy. Remember, this is based on my experience, every mum and dad will have their own points to share.
So many noises
They make a lot of noises – not just cries – I’m talking grunts, whimpers, coos, oos, and giggly sounds when they smile in their sleep. And the same goes for parents too. You find yourself making funny noises, anything to make your baby smile once they reach that stage. The other day, Freddy found it hilarious when I was dancing around the living room in the middle of the day so you know, I’ve gotta keep that up.
There really are lots of wees and poos
Yes, you hear it all of the time but it’s true. There are times when we’re changing Freddy’s nappy and he does another wee or poo. At first, lots of patience was needed. But now, we know what to expect.
The love is unconditional
When I was pregnant, I knew I had a lot of love for our little one and I imagined what our lives would be like once Freddy arrived. It’s so much more than I thought. There are hard times but he holds so much love between the three of us, it’s incredible, he is incredible!
A new tiredness hits you for real
Those first few weeks are a big shock to the system. Even though we were warned, well kinda, we didn’t get just HOW it would feel. That was until we arrived home and everything came at once in those 24 hours and following weeks. Wow, it’s tough but you do get through and as much as people say it and you might wonder, it really does get better.
How many times will they ask, “Is he in a routine yet?”
Over half of the people who meet your little one will ask this question. I remember at one point thinking, “Hang on, it’s the third week in, let’s give us all time to adjust eh!” There’s no magical dust you can sprinkle. Our baby boy is learning about a whole new life outside the womb and we are facing each day as it comes. By the way, he sleeps 8 hours at night now (at 9 weeks old), woohoo. And last night he went 9 hours+. I don’t want to say too much in case I jinx it.
Muslin cloths are my best friend
“Quick, grab that muslin cloth!” Ahh, I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, muslin cloths are so handy. Earlier this morning, I was putting baby’s washing away and there were over 6 that I had in that wash alone so you get how many we go through. They replace bibs a lot of the time though and they are just so good for little spills and dribbles.
A different perspective
The other week I had my first night out in a year. I drank, I danced, a sang, laughed etc. it was so much fun but when I came home and seen Freddy’s face, I remembered that my happiness has a whole different meaning now. If I am ever referred to as the ‘boring friend’ or hear “You’ve changed.” it honestly wouldn’t matter because I have everything that I need. Since being a parent, I have also held back on a lot of worries and try my best to ignore any negativity. There’s more to life than dragging out feelings that don’t need to be there.
What did you learn when you became a parent? Did you look at things differently in any way?