The kind of person you are can hold a mixture of perspectives from different people. But the ones who know you, know exactly the kind of person you are. I’ve already told you the reasons why you should be yourself. So this is about looking at who you are and remembering that positive thinking is the way forward.
As happy as you are right now, do you ever look back and wonder how things would’ve been? Me too. Although I’m big believer in living for now, I still look back from time to time. I believe that the people who are our lives today are the ones who are supposed to be there for some reason or another. And the ones that stay, obviously are the more important ones.
Do you ever wonder if someone thinks about you as much as you think about them? As hard as it is, you need to remember that you’re not always going to a thought in someone else’s mind. The unknown can be an annoying thing but it also adds space for optimistic thoughts in the future. Try not to fear for the worst and instead smile for whatever tries to come your way.
Good memories are the ones you should think about
Always hold onto the good times. They’re the memories that will keep you going and make you smile. If you miss someone who’s no longer with you in person but in your heart, it’s difficult I know, tell yourself that you’ll get through it bit by bit. Or maybe you miss someone who’s around but it doesn’t feel like they are. Again, take the happy moments and reflect on those rather than focusing on other things.
The way things are right now, be grateful for what and who you have each day you wake up in the morning. I don’t have the biggest group of friends in the world. But the ones I do keep close are just what I need. I am by no means perfect. But I am myself.
I’m writing this post as I’m sat up at night just talking away to myself in my head. The thoughts come into my mind, music into my ears through my headphones, and the typing come into action. Writing at night really does help me to focus. It’s as if, when something is on my mind, I can type all my thoughts away and it’s like keeping a deep breath. But they can be a random jumble of thoughts that I try to piece together!
This is the kind of person I am
I’m a happy person. Of course I have days when I might be a bit grumpy. But deep down I’m happy. It really doesn’t matter if people see you differently to how you see yourself. That’s one thing that can ruin your happiness altogether. Be whoever the hell you want to be. I might be too random for some people, too much of a thinker for some, and maybe a bit boring for others? Who cares. I’m me.
I’m the kind of girl who loves sitting in her pyjamas with a messy bun scrunched up on top of my head, eating snacks and binge watching Netflix series. And I’m also someone who loves feeling girly on a night out and enjoys a good dance. I’m happy at times doing nothing and doing something fun on other occasions.
Think about the kind of person you are
All the people you meet and all the things you experience are what shape you into the kind of person you are today. Be proud of who you are. Give yourself something positive to think about every day, even on the I can’t be bothered days. There’s always something to smile about.
Some people struggle to be who they really are due to the pressures in believing that they aren’t good enough/or that it’s better to be like someone else. I cannot emphasise how much happier you’ll be once you’re able to be yourself.